tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post1410732915306536809..comments2023-09-09T06:12:36.477-04:00Comments on the wild and wily ways of a brunette bombshell: dear husband-to-be:meg feehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16588092985523441189noreply@blogger.comBlogger38125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-19176290670284014572013-04-06T22:58:57.438-04:002013-04-06T22:58:57.438-04:00This is spectacular...brings tears to my eyes. So ...This is spectacular...brings tears to my eyes. So happy I found your blog. :)Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05038674634990336128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-47739664582739663882012-08-03T09:57:20.156-04:002012-08-03T09:57:20.156-04:00@anonymous: i suppose the man i marry will have th...@anonymous: i suppose the man i marry will have the final word on all of this. it'll be fun to see what he thinks. and maybe you're right, but maybe you're not.meg feehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16588092985523441189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-33022129158404763352012-08-03T06:21:33.420-04:002012-08-03T06:21:33.420-04:00i would very much buy your book, dear meg. i would...i would very much buy your book, dear meg. i would even pre-order it. if it existed. just saying. ;)Lukahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15257931544789866494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-25935687336006161912012-08-02T21:00:06.035-04:002012-08-02T21:00:06.035-04:00THANK YOU GRACE. Thank you. Amen sistah. You are g...THANK YOU GRACE. Thank you. Amen sistah. You are going to be shot down for your comment by all of the Meg Fee sycophants out there, but I just want to be one voice who says thank you. For your voice of absolute psychological truth. My favorite part is below...<br /><br />"...They are letters about you and your ideas of love: they don't have anything to do with your eventual husband. "Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-50273091337533349572012-08-02T20:01:56.727-04:002012-08-02T20:01:56.727-04:00I've seen some of the discourse unfold as a re...I've seen some of the discourse unfold as a result of your love letters to your future husband. I wanted to let you know that I absolutely LOVE those letters. They were what drew me to your blog in the first place. I have been given advice from a life coach to "spend time visualizing my future partner" and it sounded a bit too new age for me at the time. But I took up the practice of wondering what he might be up to in his corner of the world. And I might just start writing letters like yours because I think putting it on paper is much more powerful.AlexandraRShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01440674802292709713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-83821859061434005132012-08-02T14:31:50.442-04:002012-08-02T14:31:50.442-04:00I am speechless. Totally and utterly floored and i...I am speechless. Totally and utterly floored and in love and inspired. And that last line, about being tethered? Oh, I've never seen a more beautiful ending.beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13607850411588165692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-59340339824867510202012-08-02T00:08:56.480-04:002012-08-02T00:08:56.480-04:00What a wonderful idea and a beautiful letter. I co...What a wonderful idea and a beautiful letter. I could read it again and again. I just found your site and am definitely going to be following and I have no doubt that you will meet the man worthy of your love.fillenoirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16470665590242313373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-75312392114636608522012-08-02T00:05:50.878-04:002012-08-02T00:05:50.878-04:00"...what it means to want--to have an appetit..."...what it means to want--to have an appetite for food and life and men and love..."<br /><br />You know what I find most strange and wonderful about this? That wanting can give you a sense of fullness. That you can lack something and still have everything at the same time.Sarah McCabehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12109328847173063127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-18281504250343413512012-08-01T16:05:40.967-04:002012-08-01T16:05:40.967-04:00once again, your writing strikes me as most illumi...once again, your writing strikes me as most illuminating. thank you.Rachel Lowryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14361057537951585956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-2959700372359115872012-08-01T16:03:42.328-04:002012-08-01T16:03:42.328-04:00well, i know what it is to love a man who cannot ...<i> well, i know what it is to love a man who cannot or will not love you back and if there is a desperation, perhaps it stems from this--from this place so intimately acquainted with that soft and numbing thing known as heartache.<br /><br /></i><br /><br />ohhhh man. this part, hit me right in the gut. achingly perfectly said. you are so lovely. this is your best yet. incredible.Susan Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05778530738202150785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-21745470017756902852012-08-01T14:03:52.209-04:002012-08-01T14:03:52.209-04:00As usual, profound and beautiful. So many of your ...As usual, profound and beautiful. So many of your words speak right to my heart just when I need it.Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10421087467190953091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-58834402728168291262012-08-01T13:59:58.639-04:002012-08-01T13:59:58.639-04:00To Grace, I think you're wrong. If the man she...To Grace, I think you're wrong. If the man she marries has any amount of love and tenderness, which he will, he will treasure these letters.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-68658158656942456522012-08-01T13:51:32.959-04:002012-08-01T13:51:32.959-04:00i love these letters.
and you won't miss him....i love these letters.<br /><br />and you won't miss him. i believe there isn't just one person for us, there are different people at different times in our lives and none is more important than another because whoever you end up with will be the one you love.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00298007276718492716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-58267053225435556992012-08-01T13:13:02.646-04:002012-08-01T13:13:02.646-04:00you know what? i bet his arrival is sooner than yo...you know what? i bet his arrival is sooner than you can fathom because things may not seem to be in place for him to come- when are they ever? i look forward to the day your posts are about him because he will be so wonderful- he will! love to you, beautiful girl!Keikohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12000157922358803371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-53400926419220245212012-08-01T10:29:27.570-04:002012-08-01T10:29:27.570-04:00Wonderfully open. Thanks for sharing.Wonderfully open. Thanks for sharing.Raquelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16864159248789945477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-46065776067987291062012-08-01T08:14:54.654-04:002012-08-01T08:14:54.654-04:00I just found your site. You seem really creative a...I just found your site. You seem really creative and talented (the writing, the photos, wow!). I'm sure you will find the love you hope for, probably someday soon.<br /><br />But I don't think that whoever you end up with will much like these letters (which is fine if you're just writing them for yourself, just not if you expect him to read them). That's because they aren't love letters, because they aren't to a particular beloved person. They are letters about you and your ideas of love: they don't have anything to do with your eventual husband. <br /><br />In fact, he might even find it off-putting to be given these letters (because he might feel that you were trying to fit him into the particular box you had created). I would, if my husband had presented me with these letters when we were first dating. (A certain type of romantic projection, while common in early relationships, is anathema to any genuine love connection.)<br /><br />I think writing these letters, for yourself, is great (and certainly they are beautifully written). But they shouldn't ever be shared with your future husband, at least except as a curiosity (as in, you are truly not expecting him to find it romantic/touching/meaningful).Gracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09570841904308934998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-84816524360762489912012-08-01T07:20:38.324-04:002012-08-01T07:20:38.324-04:00I love this quote. Sooo needed to read something l...I love this quote. Sooo needed to read something like this right now.The Savory and The Beautifulhttp://www.thesavoryandthebeautiful.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-22463039503491520812012-08-01T07:15:58.301-04:002012-08-01T07:15:58.301-04:00Self discovery is a beautiful thing. Interestingly...Self discovery is a beautiful thing. Interestingly, many of the letters to your husband-to-be sound like they are addressed to yourself. I love these letters. They inspire me to read and write more. Thank you Meg xoxo.The Savory and The Beautifulhttp://www.thesavoryandthebeautiful.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-57345456563955188762012-08-01T06:45:55.223-04:002012-08-01T06:45:55.223-04:00I'm wondering, do you believe in the one? That...I'm wondering, do you believe in the one? That god/ the universe/ whatever has a plan for one woman and one man to be together and especially to find each other no matter how and when, but that there's this plan for us?<br />I'm really wondering about those things, and I'd love if you could share your thoughts about this topic...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-60905716817615879922012-07-31T23:19:16.413-04:002012-07-31T23:19:16.413-04:00this is so beautifully written...how do you do it?...this is so beautifully written...how do you do it?Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16613289822511069872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-77953329640280748562012-07-31T22:48:32.539-04:002012-07-31T22:48:32.539-04:00I love, love, love this.I love, love, love this.Suenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-81392483173445554872012-07-31T20:43:30.094-04:002012-07-31T20:43:30.094-04:00i remember those moments of being single. the deep...i remember those moments of being single. the deep satisfaction from things like a walk, or a night reading on my couch. and every now and then - that moment of fear, it may not happen.<br /><br />but oh, it does. and your future husband will be a lucky man indeed.colleenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11086379448385596577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-38055941646488023172012-07-31T19:51:36.768-04:002012-07-31T19:51:36.768-04:00swoonswoonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-91425151086848671542012-07-31T19:51:35.172-04:002012-07-31T19:51:35.172-04:00swoonswoonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6155538679069971441.post-39269923240007051222012-07-31T18:34:06.447-04:002012-07-31T18:34:06.447-04:00One more thought:
"Our deepest fear is not ...One more thought: <br /><br />"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?' Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others." - Marianne Williamson<br /><br />Maybe this whole quote won't resonate with you, maybe it will. But either way, hearing you voice your fears helps me to admit to mine. And in a lot of ways, reading your words does exactly what the end of this quote states--it liberates me. Thanks for that, Meg.Diananoreply@blogger.com